| I HAVE read the coverage of the disgraceful official statistics on numbers of conviction for rape, leaving women feeling they are not believed and that they can end up feeling like they are “on trial”.
What hasn’t been highlighted are the figures each year of women who falsely accuse innocent men of this disgusting crime.
These are the men who then are subjected to constant and very uncomfortable questioning, extremely humiliating forensic police tests, days locked in prison cells, names appearing in the Press as charged with this offence for friends, family, neighbours, employees to see, despite this only being an allegation and before any subsequent trial to prove innocence or guilt.
Then there is the further humiliation of standing before a judge, handcuffed to a security guard charged with said offence.
Not so long ago I found myself on the receiving end of this evil accusation and went through all of the above, despite being innocent.
Had it not been for other witnesses who were all able to confirm my evidence, I would have been dragged through the courts, possibly even found guilty, and my life (working and personal) would have been ruined because of vindictive lies.
I even recall that during police questioning, the officers concerned told me they believed me, but they would have to go ahead with the charge.
Where were all the rape-associated support groups for me throughout this time?
I agree that the system needs to be reformed, however I believe the suggested move to “make better provisions for cases in which there is little evidence of physical force” will simply open up the door for more women to falsely accuse innocent men. — Innocent, Dundee. |